Monday, October 1, 2012

Moscow Itinerary

To help others formation to others who are looking to plan their time in Moscow and share our own story, our time in Moscow went like this.

Tuesday - traveled from region to Moscow.  Checked in at apartment off Old Arbat.  Took a nap and then went to grocery store for supplies.  Cooked dinner in apartment and walked around Arbat.

Wednesday - Doctor came to apartment at 8:00am for medical checkup.  Was gone by 8:30 so we had rest of the day free.  We took the street trolley from Arbat to Gorky park and spent most of the day there.  Ate lunch in one of the park restaurants and Daniel napped in his stroller as we explored the park.  Rode the trolley back and ate dinner in the apartment.  Went out after dinner to buy some souvenirs.

Thursday - US Embassy appointment in the morning.  We were back at the apartment by lunch.  Took a nap and then went on a self guided tour of the Metro.  $2 for a very memorable experience.  Made sure we were done before rush hour.  Ate dinner out Thursday at Yalti-Palti.  An easy walk from the apartment.  We ate out because we were celebrating our 15th anniversary not for need.

Friday - our agency did the Russian consulate registration on our behalf so we were free all day.  Went to Red Square, Kremlin, St Basil's, the GUM, etc.   To get there we rode the Metro because it was so much easier than walking from Old Arbat.

Saturday - returned home.

Sunday, September 30, 2012

Staying at the Old Arbat Rainbow Suite

So on our final trip as part of the adoption, we found ourselves in Moscow for several days.  We opted for an apartment instead of a hotel room.  Some of the motives that inspired a choice of apartment is:

1) Apartment is cheaper than any decent hotel- by almost half. 
2) Apartments have a full kitchen allowing us to cook meals rather than eat out every meal- another significant savings.
3) Most important to us- by having a kitchen we were able to stay in when Daniel was napping and not obligated to go out unless it was what we wanted (vs what we needed).
4) Having an apartment gave us more space than most hotel rooms.

With that said, here are some pictures of the Old Arbat Rainbow Suite.

View down the street from the balcony



View out the window



View down the hallway



View of the kitchen



View of 'master' bedroom



View of second bedroom



View of living room



So what worked well?  Well the most obvious thing that worked well was location, location, location!  We were only ~70 yards from Old Arbat street.  Leaving the apartment you'll find yourself VERY close to Starbucks, Dunkin Donuts and Muy-Muy.  Also,the view out the window as shown was really nice.  The apartment was simple but functional.  We'd stay there again without hesitation or reluctancy.   The apartment provided courtesy rolls, jam, butter, eggs and oatmeal.  We were able to stretch it and made it last for the duration of time we were at the apartment.

Things I'm neutral on?  There weren't a lot of utensils/cookware.  We made due but would have appreciated more.  The apartment is on the second floor.  You must take a flight of stairs even to get to the elevator.  This means it isn't friendly to wheelchairs or even strollers.  Not a show stopper, but just realize you'll need to carry any wheeled mobility items up the stairs.  The apartment had 2 keys- but only one worked on the outside door.  One was all we needed, but it is just a note of observation.  Caution is in the information book about drinking the tap water- I suspect not a problem limited to this apartment but affecting much of Moscow.  I easily overcame this by using the Steripen Classic water purifier originally purchased for backpacking.  The apartment has a washing machine but not a dryer.  This appears to be a cultural difference.  Don't use the rack in the hallway or it will stain your clothes, but we hung ours in the closet and turned on the fan and they dried overnight.  The balcony was used for storage.  Not really a disappointment, but they are missing chance to turn this great covered area into a truly memorable space.  As far as the beds/bedrooms... the beds weren't ultra comfortable and it was rather obvious they were low end mattresses, but they were clean and we were tired enough each day they provided the necessary rest.  The second bedroom was without any nightstands or closet space (just a room with a bed).  Again, not a negative but just an observation of reality that I feel should be noted.

And what didn't work so well?  the apartment is supposed to have free phone calls (even back to the USA).  I couldn't get *any* phone calls to work right.  However, the wireless worked well enough I just used T-Mobile's VOIP to make phone calls without cost from my cell phone.  A second complaint is trash disposal.  There is nothing in the information book about what to do with your trash and I couldn't figure it out properly.  I won't disclose how I adapted to overcome, but I am pretty certain it wasn't the intended method to dispose of trash.  Finally, I understand this was a maid-serviced apartment.  They told us the maid would come after 3 days but even that didn't happen for us.  We ran out of paper towels on the first day and would have run out of toilet paper had we stayed there even one more day.  Oh... one more thing- I couldn't find the controls to regulate the temperature inside.  We made it work by opening and closing windows, but I would have preferred a more modern method.   :-)

All things considered, I wouldn't hesitate to recommend the apartment to any other adoptive families... and the size of this apartment is larger than most and the location was so great.  To add details to the location- it is an easy walk to the US embassy, across the park from the US ambassadors personal residence, very close the the 24hr grocery store and convenient to the Smolenskaya Metro station.

The Grand Reveal

I could talk about the experience... and I probably will at some point, but I suspect people are often just as interested in the pictures as the experience... and to that effect, I now present Daniel Morris.  (Due to a paperwork oversight, he doesn't have a middle name until we re-adopt him here in the states).


A closeup picture from our initial meeting



A pic from the airport from Krasnodar to Moscow



Picture of Daniel beside the Kremlin wall



And the obligatory shot with St. Basil's in the background



More posts to come at some point in the future but I found I could get these up quick.

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

God at work

Finances
  • A generous and unexpected financial gift from family made it possible for us to complete the adoption and remain debt free.
  • Bonus from work covered the plane tickets on second trip within a $50 difference
Work/Vacation
  • Always had enough vacation time without claiming FMLA  (although it came close many times).
  • A security event at work called the on-call analyst to make an international trip with only 3 days notice.  Had Anthony been the on-call analyst, there is no way we would have completed our court dossier before the judge went on extended vacation.  (By the way... he missed it by only two days.)
  • A particular work trip had been scheduled to travel in September back in May- even before we had received the referral.  Additionally, other travel plans for managers would have also restricted Anthony's travel availability.  God worked out the timing of all trips perfectly.

Timing
  • We had planned months in advance for Lori to be in Houston to renew Ana's Russian passport.  We discovered the day before she was scheduled to be an the Russian consulate that we were to travel to Russia in a matter of days.  Had we needed to mail passports in the mail and wait for their return, they wouldn't have made it on time.  It was only because we already had an appointment at the Russian consulate we could get the visas processed in time. 
  • Visa processing was incredibly perfect... Visas for first 2 trips arrived on the day before we were scheduled to leave.
  • We were concerned about how to arrange care for our kids... first 2 trips happened during summer when family could care for kids
Divine intervention  [Intentionally vague on both points]
  • Anthony was nervous about our court appointment.  Not only did God answer... He did it in true God fashion- with an exclamation point.  :-)
  • After three disappointing referrals, we were growing concerned that we were emotionally and financially equipped to handle another international referral.  The referral we accepted was without a doubt- an answered prayer!

Timelines

As mentioned previously, I am excessively cautious about being too revealing in my details.  I wish to balance this with a desire to provide enough information to help other families that are looking for information on adoption from Russia.

The timeline for our adoption went something like this:

Nov 2009 - Initial Application to adoption agency
Mar 2010 - Homestudy
Q2 2010 - Refused first two referrals due to overwhelming physical/medical needs
Q3 2010 - Placed adoption on hold due to international political uncertainty
Nov 2011 - Resumed adoption
Jan 2012 - Homestudy (again)
Mar 2012 - I-171H filed
May 2, 2012 - Refused third referral due to overwhelming physical/medical needs
Jun 12, 2012 - Accepted fourth referral.
Jun 25, 2012 - Leave for trip 1 to meet child.
Jun 30, 2012 - Return from trip 1.
Aug 18, 2012 - Leave for trip 2.
Aug 20, 2012 - Court.
Aug 23, 2012 - Return from trip 2.
Sep 22, 2012 - Leave for trip 3.
Sep 24, 2012 - Pickup our new child.
Sep 29, 2012 - Return from trip 3.

Why Eph15?

Eph15 is short for Ephesians 1:5- "In love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will."

I can't think of a better verse that captures the spirit and value of adoption.  There are so many wonderful parallels between our spiritual adoption in Christ and physical adoptions in this life.  It is comforting during the stress of international adoptions to know that we are allowed to be part of something bigger than ourselves.

Second... this is my second attempt at an adoption blog.  I was chastised on my first for revealing too much information too early.  Consequently, this blog won't reveal the child's name, city or even region within Russia until the adoption is ENTIRELY finalized and we bring our new child home.